Failure.
It’s not a fun word is it? But sometimes we have to deal
with that word. Everyone from the begger on the street corner to Donald Trump
has to deal with failure. In the past couple of weeks I have had to deal with
that word much more than I ever wanted to.
If you are like me, you hate to admit your failure.
Stumbling is somehow more acceptable to us. That means that we just tripped on
the sidewalk. Failure means we fell flat on our faces, onstage, with everyone
we know and love watching. Stumbling might earn a giggle from passer-bys and
maybe even a semi-funny story to be shared at family dinners. Failure, however,
is often swept under the rug with the hope that we will never have to look at
it again. Everyone knows this, even if they don’t admit it. We have a major
problem with admitting our failures. But why?
Why do we run in fear from our failure? You see countless
posts on facebook and twitter about how failing teaches us life’s lessons and
how mistakes make us wiser. What we don’t accept though is how true it is.
Sure, we put on the face like “yes, this is true” and we even will say the words
aloud, but we don’t accept it mentally or emotionally. If we did, it would not
be nearly as easy to beat ourselves up about every little stumble, mistake, and
failure over and over again until we can barely drag ourselves out of bed
because we don’t feel like we can do anything right. It is time for us to start
really realizing that failure isn’t the end of the road. Failure doesn’t mean
that we can’t come back from the low point where we are. Failure simply means
that we have more growing to do.
We might have messed up in the past, and we might even be at
the lowest points of our lives. We might have let down every person that has
ever put their faith in you. But that doesn’t mean that we can’t fix things. If
our heart is still beating and our lungs are still breathing, we still have
time to work and work and reach our highs again.
2 Corinthians 16-18 says
“Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we
are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light
and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs
them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since
what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.”
See? Even the Bible says that our troubles are momentary and
that there is an eternal glory that far outweighs every bad thing that can ever
happen to us in this lifetime. The One who created us is waiting for us to
realize that he is bigger than our troubles.
I’m not saying that we should just accept our failures. We
all know that we would never grow if we accepted our failures as the” be all
end all” in our life. I am saying, however, that we should take our failures
for what they are: opportunities to grow in ways that were not present before. Only
by really learning from our mistakes and growing through our failures can we become
the people that God has laid out for us.
Now, so that I can send you off with an awesome song in your
head, I have included my favorite singer’s newest single, which just so happens
to have an amazing message that goes perfectly with the meaning of this blog
post.
Keep your head up guys. Trust me, “the pain ain’t gonna last
forever, it’s time it’s gonna get better, believe me, this is gonna make you
stronger.”
Your fellow Water Walker,
Ashlee.
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